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How Much is Too Much to Ask of Bridesmaids?


You hear it all the time: bridesmaids complaining about being in a wedding. But is the bride really a bridezilla, or are the bridesmaids just whiners? And how much is too much for a bride to ask of her bridesmaids, anyhow?

You are expected to buy the bridesmaid dress, no matter how much you hate it. A bridesmaid is also responsible for paying for her own hair and makeup for the wedding. Transportation is also on the bridesmaid, although the bride will often find a place that she can stay, such as a friend's home.

In addition, the bridesmaids will often chip in on a bridal shower, a bachelorette night, and of course a wedding present. If you have chosen a theme that will require attire that is really more costume than regular bridesmaid dress, the gracious thing to do is to cover the cost for your attendants.

Something else that the bride should avoid doing is confusing her bridesmaids with personal assistants, particularly for non-wedding tasks. If you really need help, hire a professional. Your bridesmaid are your friends, not your indentured servants.

The shower will feel much more special if it was not orchestrated by a domineering bride!.All of this said, most brides do not treat their bridesmaids like servants or cast members in a supper theater.


Finding Unique Bridesmaid Dresses

Executive Summary about wedding brides by Sarrah Beaumont

Bridesmaids complement the bride. Similarly, the bridesmaid dresses complement the wedding dress. You have already figured out every detail of your unique wedding - down to your unique wedding dress to your unique wedding invitations. Take down your gorgeous wedding dress, analyze it's style, it's cut and it's theme, then go from there.

Search for Greek-inspired bridesmaid dresses online. If your wedding dress is Hawaiian-inspired, then what logical reason is there other than to have Hawaiian themed bridesmaid dresses? If you are wearing a princess cut wedding gown, you may also opt to have princess-cut bridesmaid dresses.

Consult your bridesmaids on the designs which they like. You should follow the wedding motif. Green bridesmaid dresses would look awful if your theme is lavender. Similarly, fuchsia pink bridesmaid dresses would totally seem out of place if your wedding color theme is yellow.

You can choose bridesmaid dresses that may be just a shade or two darker or lighter than your wedding motif. All in all, the important elements in choosing your bridesmaid dresses can basically be summed up as these: Your wedding dress style, your wedding color motif, your theme and venue, your bridesmaids personalities and preferences, and of course, your bridesmaids' comfort.